From "When Breath Becomes Air"

"When you come to one of the many moments in life when you must give an account of yourself, provide a ledger of what you are, and what you do, and what you mean to the world, do not, I pray, discount that you fill your father's days with a sated joy, ... a joy that does not hunger for more and more, but rests, satisfied.” 

― Paul Kalanithi, When Breath Becomes Air 

I paraphrased a little, but the sentiment is exactly right. I love you, Abi Pereira